Creational Design Patterns - Builder Vs Factory

I learned how to use the builder ,factory ,and abstract factory.

1. Where would I prefer to use the builder instead of Factory? and the opposite?(Please use examples in answer ) -- 2)What are the differences between the 2 builder approaches that I wrote in Main?

The First lines of codes in Main, is the first approach. I wrote it with Interfaces,abstract classes for models, builder interface + concrete specific builders that implelment the builder interface, and a director that constructs everything together.

The Second approach is where it written Car car = new Car(); in Main. I just wrote a class for Car + CarBuilder class inside with method build();, and I can add any attribute that I want . The second approach is very fast to write, and feels very flexible to me, not like the first approach- which feels very complex.

public class Main {

public static void main(String[] args) {
    // write your code here
    System.out.println("***** // Builder Pattern Demo // ******");
    Director director = new Director();

    MealBuilder vegMealBuilder = new VegMealBuilder();
    MealBuilder nonVegMealBuilder = new ChickenBurgerBuilder();

    director.construct(vegMealBuilder);
    Meal vegMeal = vegMealBuilder.getMeal();

    //veg meal builder
    System.out.println("\nVegetarian Meal\n");
    vegMeal.showItems();
    System.out.println("Total Cost: " + vegMeal.getCost());

    director.construct(nonVegMealBuilder);
    Meal nonVegMeal = nonVegMealBuilder.getMeal();
    System.out.println("\nNon Vegetarian meal\n");
    nonVegMeal.showItems();
    System.out.println("Total Cost : " + nonVegMeal.getCost());


    //Other Approach For Builder Pattern
    System.out.println("\n-------Other Approach For Builder Pattern---------\n");
    Car car = new Car.CarBuilder("Honda", "civic", 3000).isNew(false).wheelsNum(2).build();
    System.out.println(car.toString());

    Car car2 = new Car.CarBuilder("Mazda", "3", 5000).wheelsNum(4).build();
    System.out.println(car2.toString());
}

}

Thank you .